4. Write “Thank You” Notes
I feel like this manner has just about gone out the window, but even as an adult, it’s something I still do. Do people expect thank you notes after giving gifts? I don’t know. But making the gesture doesn’t hurt anything, and it’s always nice to know you’re appreciated. Even in this digital world we’re living in, I stick to the old fashioned pen and paper notes, because they are much more personal and the extra effort doesn’t go unnoticed.
5. Close Your Mouth While Eating
As much as I love to listen to my boy tell me stories, I don’t want him doing it while he’s chowing down. He likes to eat and talk, eat and play, eat and jump, and pretty much eat and do anything. But he’s got to learn to keep his mouth shut until he has completely chewed and swallowed his food. Not just because it is gross, but because it can also be unsafe. The way that kid jumps around, he could easily choke on his food. The sound of people munching with their mouths open doesn’t bother me, but watching food fall from people’s mouths because they are open does. Blech. Close your mouth!
6. Greet Others With A Handshake
I don’t think this really applies to really young children, but once my kids are old enough to feel comfortable greeting people, I’d like them to reach out a hand. This will be important when they’re older. When they meet new people, interview for a job, or even tell people at church “Peace be with you.” I want my children to feel comfortable embracing others in a way that is appropriate, personal and allows for some type of connection. I believe this can strengthen their ability to form stronger bonds with those they love.